My boss will get stressed if things do not go according to plan. She really pissed Yogita off. Koreans in thier 50's and 60's are really living in another time while still existing today. In other words younger generations are not putting up with being desrepected. You see in Korea the older you are the better in some social interactions. Your opinion is always right, you can act in a very disrespectful way and the younger generation should put up with it. It is changing today. All of this said, I have a good work environment. I am get very little stress from work. I go to work to teach. So when I do this I feel like everything is hunky dory.
My wife on the otherhand. Wow, her work partner does not handle stress very well at ALL. For every change in the teaching schedule, or a some conflict among students, even missbehaving students she goes supernova. I can only imagine what it is doing to her internal organs, blood pressure and what not. It pours over on to her kids. Many people in Korea say things like "Your sons are so polite." Or "your sons are so calm and relaxed". This is due in part to both of us handling stress and letting it get the better of us. Yogita finishes 30 minutes late on average. Not due to parents, due to her friends stress! I guess some people even when shown a better way would rather stick to thier old ways.
Ok my students are here I have to go.
/tata