I have been married for almost 21 years. One thing that I think is important to me is that if you do not LIKE your wife or husband it is harder to accept other annoying habits they have. I am not going to go into what annoys me or my wife. However, there are many things. BUT, I really like her. I really like her as well as love her.
You see love is kinda painful, good, wonderful, sad, all mixed into one.
When I met the lady of my dreams, I thought...Nah I'll never be able to get a chance to win her heart. Well, after over 21 years of mariage I am so happy I won her heart. She is loving, giving, forgiving, patient, super kind, extemely polite, and of course drop dead gorgous. She annoys me as well, as I also annoy her. But, when I am upset because she is annoying me, or not doings things the way I think she should...it feels normal.
We were very different people when we first married. Now we are an amalgamation of both of our personalities.
I think couples should : talk a lot, merge entertainment (share each others interests), exercise together, if there are children be on the same team, do not argue about money (have an united idea of what your finacial goals are), and understand that the person next to you is a part of you.
I was talking to our sons on Monday night about how as we age we percieve time differently. I have been married for 21 years. Yet, I remember the first two times I saw her like it was yesterday!
Ok time to finish up the work day on this hump day!
/tata
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